Life is Such: APOLOGY NOT ACCEPTED

According to wikipedia, marriage is a social union between TWO individuals.......this usually means two single, available and reasonably aged persons. Civil marriage is a legal concept of marriage. However, this is usually never enough for both parties and more so for the parents of the bride and groom. Therefore there must be a wedding, which in true sense is the celebration of a marriage.

There is no doubt that many believe in marriages. All it needs to bind this two individuals is love, honesty and good sex but once the proposal is accepted, people lose all perspective what a marriage is meant to be before it even started. Of course not everyone, but definitely more than just a hand full do not understand the sanctity of marriage; Ashley Cole, John Terry, Tiger Woods, a certain previous adidas CEO and Daphne Iking to name a few. Almost all cultures that recognize marriage (are there cultures that dont recognize marriage, esp. if the are of different sex?) also recognize that adultery is a violation of the term of marriage. Adultery is one of the worst type of betrayal. Its like having someone stabbing you from behind into your heart and out and back into your gallbladder, spilling your bile. To say that it will leave the victim in anguish, sadness, despair, anger and since your gallbladder is punctured; bitterness will be an understatement. I will never be able to begin to understand the emotions the victims (can I call them victims?) go through.

From what I heard ......sounds better than 'what I read', Ashley Cole has now been exposed to not only sending lewd pictures of himself but has had 4 girls claiming to have slept with him in recent months. Of course that is "sup sup soi" if you compare to Tiger Woods. He has had 12 women claiming to be his mistresses, had orgies with 50 prostitutes and his excuse is he has worked hard all his life!! He felt he was entitled to it.

In all eventuality, the person cheating will come up with an apology. If you are a celebrity, it usually will be a public statement or an Oprah interview. For Tiger, it took him 4 months to resurface from his absence from life to give a 15 minute' deeply sorry' statement.....probably written by his PR people. He begged for forgiveness from his wife, family and business associates.

Well, apology not accepted! I am speaking on behalf of all your social conscious fans. I want to tell that to your wife too. Let it be known that all women or men who have been betrayed are entitled to revenge.......as divorce may leave you feeling empty, and money is not or never enough. Being a Chinese and having watched so many sword fighting shows, revenge is always a must. Revenge does not have to be violent, it does not have to be immediate, and does not have to be legal!

I think the suing of the OM (other man as opposed to OW..other woman) by this Ryan guy, previously married to Daphne Iking is ingenious. It does not say much but will spills a lot in due time.

Being inventive with revenge is difficult and executing it to perfection may seem impossible. But revenge is best served cold. Therefore time is on your side. I once advised a girlfriend of my friend who had an affair to loosen the seams of all his pants at the crotch area. I think my ultimate revenge is to go for holiday together, maybe during winter, to lets say Saskatchewan. The weather will be perfect -20. Then after a good love making session, drug him, leave him naked, paint his nails in shocking pink (no need OPI), with or without makeup (your choice) and leave with everything.......his clothes, his passport, his money, his credit cards, the hotel towels and bath robe. Do remember to cut the internal phone lines and switch off the heater on the way out.....to bahamas!

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